When I ask people why they have sex, most often they say, “Because it feels good.” Many of my friends seek out sex tips for married couples. However, if you really think about it, there are dozens of reasons why people have sex: Different people, in different relationships, in different situations, and different stages of life all have sex for different reasons. Sex will be truly amazing if you have sex for the reasons that make you feel fulfilled. Some people have sex for reasons that are wrong for them, before they realize that sex is better when they do it for the right reasons. If you give some serious thought to what makes sex the best for you, and stick to a goal of trying to have sex under those conditions, you'll be happier with your sex life. If you're not getting what you want out of your sex life, it may be because of some attitudes or experiences that you had years ago. Once you examine all of those issues, you can start to put the pieces of your sexual past and present together. The more you talk about your issues, the faster you can work on resolving them. You do not need to tell a new partner all about your past. In fact, you might want to keep the details of your sexual past to yourself. You don't have to share tips on giving a woman oral sex. (Especially if you are using condoms for disease protection anyway.) But you might want to share personal aspects of your history with a partner who you love, so the person gets to know you more intimately. Sometimes being able to talk about your sexual past and your sexual attitudes and values can be important.